Reality My Playground

In all humility I state. Every word I write is what I have tried first.
When it has worked for me.
I feel the need to share with fellow, growth oriented people.

I share the now, everyday small victories.
So that everyday common people like us
become increasingly aware that we are wonderful and doing a great job!

Reading of the incidents which lead me to

search for and find a way, may restrict you to say.

"Well, this does not apply to me."

It may also distract you from taking action and making the rule your own.

Thus defeating the very purpose of my writing.

I want my sharing to be effective to the person who reads.
In a way which is true and real.

I accomplish that by applying and making it my own before I share.

I am changing my life

one moment at a time,

one thought at a time,

one action at a time.

To focus on constructive action is my mission.

The reason which has driven one to start the search for a way, matters least.

For me the person matters, their thinking matters, their doing matters.

Remember, ones' circumtances can be transformed.

Anytime one should so choose to change ones thoughts and actions.

But Neeta, you are my greatest follower in my list of one.
So I will rethink and work out a way to highlight daily struggles
to help you understand the daily victories better.

STRIFE IS LIFE, I have made this REALITY MY PLAYGROUND.

Thanks for reading.

Joscelyn

New Signals

What are you telling yourself right now?
Stop, Breathe,Think and get in touch with your feelings.
Are you saying " Whatever needs to be done, I do easily"
What you are saying to yourself? That is your reality!

A little pretend, some faking can be done at first
to create what you truely want.
Balance it with the real.
Keep a happy heart.
Soon you will have no need to pretend.

Cultivate one positive reinforcement a day.
The fun part is you get to choose what you want to change,
you choose the words, you make your dreams come true.
Furthermore, you reap the rewards of change.

Changing the course of one's life brings tremendous satisfaction.
Send yourself new signals and put yourself on the path of miracles.
I did!

Joscelyn

Make It Best

You hold the key to everything.

You lay down the burden of the past and your hands are freed to use the key.
Trials, Pain, Tribulations are excellent materials that lay solid foundations for a good life.
IF you use them as such! Remember they are yours to use any way you choose.

Have at least three persons who you can 'GO TO' to create and find paths that lead to solutions.
One] A Higher Power
Two] a trusted and loving human being.
Three] YOU!
There you have got the most invincible team on earth!

So,now that you have taken care of the most neccessary the rest will soon be history!
Simplify it in thought and keep your energy for action.

Joscelyn

Give What You Want To Receive

Thumbs up for effort!
Educators all, be there for the child!
From where I stand effort deserves applause, encouragement and support.

Your work gets little or no appreciation then give appreciation to another.
You are ignored then take more notice of the least visible student in your class.
You know what it feels like, Right!

Who better than you to give what you want to receive.
What goes around comes around. Believe it!
So in the end you will surely get what you have generously given.

Joscelyn

I Am Tapping

The journey of success is
You think once,
You plan once,
and the doing begins.
You work at it for lets say one thousand four hundred times.
After that maybe you get a pat.
You continue working in self belief.
Lets say for another thousand times.
Reinforcement may come in the form of a wink of luck.
You plow on.. for lets say another one thousand and ninety times.
You stay focused,no lights go flashing!
You work on in unwavering faith for another two thousand times.
Maybe you'll get a friendly nudge here.

ARE YOU GETTING THE TREND!

Yes DOING makes up most part of the journey.

So its safe to conclude that success is not a destination.
Success is the rewarding feeling you get while doing the
task at hand.

To sustain the feeling recognise the high in action.

Keep tapping who knows which stroke will bring the breakthrough.

And its only wise to keep away from the danger of DOING only for the end result.

If so, then you'll not enjoy success as it is meant to be enjoyed.
All the way, along the way.

Don't defeat the purpose of tapping by being weary.

Imagine then you'll be weary most part of life.

Not a tempting offer.
Yet indulged in more often than not.

The reward is in the journey too, not only in the elusive destination.

Joscelyn

Feel The Need

I dream on to see..............

Celebrity reactions devoid of ego.

News without hype.

No Gain at the cost of anothers' pain.

Housemaids treated and appreciate as human beings.

Public property not damaged in rage.

Children not used as earning machines.

Children speaking children thoughts.

Medicines, blood, milk impure networks completely destroyed.

Domestic volience not tolerated.

Rapist punished to the fullest.

Trust returning.

Country before self.

Gratitude in everthing by everyone.

Growth beyond expectation for rural India.

Humans learning from animals and nature.

Cartoon animals emulating animal thoughts.

and the list goes on..............

Joscelyn

I have so much!

I appreciate and

acknowledge in my darling daughter, Janelle.

Her inner beauty and outer prettiness.

Her resilience, how she bounces back.

How she knows what she desires and goes after it.

How she stands up for herself.

How she makes friends.

How well she gets on with people be it children or adults.

How willingly she shares.

How she loves animals.

How interested she is for new experiences.

Thank you, Janelle Darling!

You raise the bar for me.

You challenge me to Be better, Think better, Work out better solutions.

You are! So I stay motivated.

Joscelyn

How are you doing?

I'm waiting and while I wait...............

I trust, I thank, I pray, I love, I laugh, I have fun, I believe and have faith.
Some say I am living in Hope.

I read, I write, I cook, I clean, I surf, I create, I garden, I listen to music, I dance.
Some say I am living in the Now.

I walk, I call, I visit, I have visitors, I exercise, I help, I watch movies, I drive.
Some say I am living in Luxury.

I encourage & I motivate,
I learn new things & I improve skills,
I say, I am doing the best I can.

Whats' up with you, these days?

Joscelyn

Happy Gratitude Day!

Happy Gratitude Day today!

Woke up, my eyes still shut. Curled and cozy!
Thank you God for this feeling,
Thank you God for this moment,
Thank you God for Janelle,
Thank you for my wonderful job,
Thank you for a roof over my head,
Thank you for this cozy bed,
Thank you for Cinta and her family, who have opened their hearts and home to me, Thank you, thank you!

I am up and about doing the daily chores
I have hands to do everything which needs to be done –

Thank you very much!
I have legs that carry me swiftly about – Thank you very much!
I have organizing skills – Thank you!



Sending mail
Thank you for the facility of this technology,
Thank you for the ability to put into words a clear message.

Made a phone call Thank you for the joy conversation creates,
Thank you for keeping us healthy in spite of being in the eye of the storm.

Watched on TV – Heroes of Freedom
Genuine heroes you have my respect,regard and gratitude.
Male protagonist, detained at Newark airport.

Thank you, you make me think.

At lunch
Thank you for the nourishment.
Thank you for happy thoughts.

Creating and writing

For the oodles of time – Thank you
For plenty of ideas – Thank you

For enthusiasm unlimited –Thank you

A Daily Walk
Thank you this is refreshing!

Thank you I love these trees!
Thank you, thank you God.

Joscelyn

YOU

UNLIMITED IS YOU
Capacity to love


Ability to act

Gift to evolve

Faculty to laugh

Power to change

Competence to deliver

Facility to create

Capability to overcome


Means to channelize

Potential to greatness

Qualifications to succeed

Mastery over self

Aptitude to learning

Talent to empower

Fitness to persist

Propensity to kindness

Skill to generate

Penchant to pursuit

Likeness to peace
Fondness to hope

Desire to effect

Affinity to divine

Inclination to achieve

Predilection to develop

Janelle to me!

My mummy is one of a kind,

A mum like mine is hard to find.

Dignity and Strength in her is found,

A lady whose heart knows no bound.

I fight with her on endless occasions,

Nevertheless, my love for her has no conditions.

God sends His best angel to look after you,

And who better, than a mother so true.

Pure at heart loving and true,

Yes Mummy!! I'm glad I have you.

Your loving daughter,

Janelle

SURPRISE

Do you want to be pleasantly surprised?

If you do, then:

Keep an open mind.

Suspend judgment.

Live in the moment.

Trust me, you will be pleasantly surprised.

Joscelyn

I Must Like Me.

I must like me for I spend hours alone creatively.

I must like me for I am constantly facing challenges and doing better each time.

I must like me for I have left the competition
far behind for my every try is better than the last.

I must like me for I do what needs to be done to the
best of my ability.

I must like me for I make the
best of every experience
as it presents itself.

I must like me for I find joy in what I am.

I must like me for I take time to
improve my thinking
for fruitful living.

I must like me for I am
listening to my inner voice.

I like me don’t you think?
What about you?

Do you like you?

Find out by checking
what you are telling yourself and
the tone in which you speak to yourself.

Try it! Have fun!

Joscelyn

IF

If you love, you will always have joy.

If you give, you will always have plenty left over.

If you feel good, you will always receive quickly.

If you compete only to be better than others.

There will always be someone to break your record.

If you consistently try to be better for yourself.
You will leave all competitors behind by default.

You will emerge in a place of plenty.

You will have
truly succeeded.

Joscelyn

First, To Yourself Be Kind.

Do the loving thing.

When hopes fade, brighten them in loving TRUST.

When expectations are not met, lower them in loving REASON.

When promises are broken, mend yourself with loving CARE.

When slander stings, regroup in loving COMPANY.

When painful memories waken, observe them as a loving WITNESS.


Choose your battles:

Let something slide.

Let something go.

Let something stay unruffled.

Let something fizzle out.

JOSCELYN

Are You The Exception?

I live my life as me.

I express my thoughts as me.


I lost my fear.

I forgave my doubts.

I cuddle my smiles and tears.

I pat my feelings and emotions.

I develop my good thoughts and deeds.

I strengthen my habit of gratitude and joy.

Advanced thinking is the cool mantra of today!
Hop on!
Or do you want to remain the exception?

Joscelyn

Is It My Imagination!

An invention to help remember everything of true value.

EXISTS!

Its called GRATITUDE.

An invention to live a rewarding life.

EXISTS!

Its called GIVING.

An invention to forget all misfortune.
EXISTS!
Its called FORGIVING.

GRATITUDE is music to the soul.

To the giver and the receiver it is true.

Play it and dance into a new way of life.

A grateful heart knows joy that brings into existance

a limitless dimension to human power.

GO CATCH IT!

Revive the good times!

Recall with gratitude!

Revoke with love!

Joscelyn